Then & Now

This section of our website allows you to tell us what the heck you've been doing the past 50 years and add any other comments you would like.  Please enter your profile and you can come back to the site at anytime to change it.  You will need a current digital or scanned photo of yourself to upload to our site.  If you are computer-challenged in this respect, perhaps you can seek help from someone who is more informed on this, or call your local Kinko's or office supply store for help.  If none of that works, just contact us at >>blackshirts1961@yahoo.com<< and we are pleased to help.  You will also need some narrative on what has happened in your life since graduation.  So please ADD YOUR PROFILE below!  It will probably take at least one day before your information is posted and once it is, you may edit it at any time.

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Penny Skyrud (Dresdow)

Marital status: Married
Children: 4
Occupation: Retired Licensed Practical Nurse
Comment: My second husband & I have 2 daughters & sons, 3grandgirls & 2grandboys. One daughter lives in Grand Rapids, MI, the other in Osage, IA. The two boys are in WI.





I'm a retired Licensed Practical Nurse, & Hubby from the State Patrol..He was the Communications Sup. in Waukesha..We are both enjoying retirement except for our health issues.





We love being in Waupaca, WI. Just like being on vacation all the time..We watch the tourists return home in Sept. & we get to stay.. ;o) We enjoy the wildlife & birds we see everyday..





I enjoy the computer & make greeting cards to send. I used to love to crochet prayer shawls, but am finding my hands are getting worse w/arthritis. So one of my great pleasures in life is becoming a thing of the past.





Anyway; GO PACKERS!!! I'm not a huge fan, but love it when they win..  ;o)












Karen Spoentgen (Holmberg)

Marital status: Widowed
Children: 3
Occupation: homemaker
Comment: When I left WHS, I didn't know what I would do with the rest of my life. After searching in vain for some sort of employment that summer, my father urged me to go to College. I entered the admissions office at Carroll college just down the street from home and asked to be admitted. Magically my paperwork was there and the counselor said there would not be room in a dorm but I could be admitted.


  Reluctantly, there I was back at school. The only one of my friends to do so. The first in my family to do so. My Norwegian father was so proud.


  I stayed at Carroll and earned a B.A. That summer of 1965 I was selected for the C.A.U.S.E. II program. It was the Counselor Assistant University Summer Education study program. It was part of the Kennedy/ Johnson anti-poverty push. I boarded my first air flight, to Portland, OR and spent a wonderful summer earning 12Q hours of graduate work. The plan was to finish graduate school and become an employment counselor. I trained in Milwaukee, then was placed first in Wausau and then Madison, WI.


  A year later I decided I didn't want to go on to school and landed a job working as secretary for the Editor of the American Sociological Review at the UW-Madison. As Editorships rotate, I was out of a job two years later. I secured a job at the old Bureau of Personnel in Madison for the State.


  There I met my husband who was recently widowed. It was love at first sight. A year later, we both left our jobs there, married, packed up two cars and his son and drove to Ventura, CA where he had landed a job with the County of Ventura Dept. of Personnel.


  It is here we remained, he loved working there, managed to come home for lunch every day and built us a good life. I became an old fashioned stay at home mom.


  I baked, cooked from scratch, sewed, knit, just had a great time with our three kids and managing our lives.


  Our boys both went off to the Navy. My daughter went to college and earned a Bachelor of Arts in Religious studies. Took her husband and 5 year old daughter to India for six months in a study program.


  Later she earned a Masters Degree in Special Education and worked in a Title I school. But now she is home with 5 children, one with Type I diabetes, and mothering the four little ones while the eldest, now 17, is getting ready for college.


  My eldest son earned his bachelors degree after retiring from the Navy. He has two children, one of whom is now in college. And my younger son has been suffering debilitating illnesses and much of my time has been to help him, help my daughter and do what I can.


  My husband died 7 years ago of pulmonary fibrosis, a tough way to go. 


  Once my youngest was on his own, I started to write down the stories that had been in my head all my life. I happily set up an office and wrote 3 novels. I had the fun of seeing improvement the more I wrote. I never considered any ready to send to a publisher but am anxious for the day I can go back to trying again.


  I was always in the choirs at church and sang many solos. Edited the church newsletter for four years. Was secretary of our swim pool assoc. and on the board of a charitable organization called Project Understanding. 


  But mostly, I was wife and mother.


  I am a family historian and have traced both my husband's and my families as much as I can. I have seen the county where my ancestors lived in Sweden. The home my father grew up in in Norway.  Traveled to Maine to see where my mother's roots were. We showed the children where their paternal grandfather's family had settled when they came from Germany. My father-in-law had a wonderful time showing them his boyhood home the year before he died.


  I even met the sister I didn't know I had. She was born and raised in Norway and never met our father. We have connected as sisters. She even traveled to India to see my daughter there.


  Since my husband died and we lived through so much turmoil in our lives, my children and I with illnesses and conflicts and financial stress, I found that when I cannot bare to think, I sit down and start researching and it eases my pain.


 One day an elderly friend told me she didn't know anything about her grandparents.


Over the next few months, I had a wonderful time researching so many branches of her German family in Texas and presented her with a book. 


  I might add the now photo is with my 7 beautiful grandchildren. 


My Christmas gift to myself this past Dec.


  The Good Lord has always been at my side through everything, good and bad. I know that we are not meant to go through life alone. And tough things will happen. When my husband died, it was amazing to me when I reached my lowest points of despair, there would be a phone call from some friend wanting to know would I like to go out to eat with them? Go to a movie? I recognized those as angel moments. God knew my need.


  Hard to believe I am recapping 50 years in so few words. With so little accomplishment. I didn't go to Bangladesh and help set up a farm project. I was never an administrator of a program or a teacher.  Didn't set the world on fire anywhere. Just lived my life the best I could. There have been so many heart aches balanced my so many wonderful moments.

Daniel Steffen

Marital status: Married
Children: 2
Occupation: Professor Emeritus
Comment:

After graduation, I earned a BS and MS from UW-La Crosse in Physical Education/Exercise Physiology.  I continued to date my high school sweetheart, Donna Gruett '62, and we have been happily married for forty five years.


In 2001, I retired from my position at Carroll College (now Carroll University) after working there for twenty-seven years.  I was a professor in Physical Education and during my first years coached football and baseball.  I later changed to coaching women's basketball and volleyball.


We have two daughters, one in Michigan and one in Illinois, and four grandchildren.


Since retirement, we've spent much of our time enjoying our grandkids and all their activities.  We love Wisconsin, but do enjoy leaving each winter for a warmer climate.  Some of my most satisfying times during retirement have also been reconnecting with some of the special people that had influenced me during my life.  Most recently, I have experienced great pleasure working with Mike Galles founding the Blackshirt Breakfast Group that began over a year ago and continues each Friday.  Blackshirts from several classes gather to greet former coaches, teachers and classmates to reminisce.


I'm looking forward to our 50th !!!

Ronna Swift

Marital status: Married
Children: 4
Occupation: retired educator/school counselor
Comment: I still live in Appleton, WI, along with my husband of 32 years, Ron Wahl, from Wahl Organbuilders.  My sons have 3 kids between them and my step son and his partner have 2 little ones (they live in Appleton).   


I am still hauling my bass to Fox Valley Symphony, active with UU Fellowship/LWV/ and very am a long time activist in the community and state. 


I started the Fox Valley Peace Coalition almost 20 years ago where we advocate for veteran benefits, lobby legislators, and intentionally witness for peace.  We still are on Houdini corner on College Avenue in the downtown area the first Saturday from 11-12.


2 ye ars ago I started working with Congolese refugees and have been adopted by a family of 7 where the kids call me grama and I am "Sister Ronna".  Now I am working with World Relief getting ready for the approimately 100 Afghanistani refugees that will start coming any day.


I am very aciive in the area of dealing with LWV dealing with climate change, also diversity and inclusion.  


I love to walk/hike, have a large yard of native plants and garden, and travel. 10 years ago I organized the neighborhood to fight off developers on the 72 acre old golf course immediately behind me.  It became an organic urban farm with trails, hoop houses, bees, bike trails, work hardening site, Earn a bike, etc. 


In recent years we have taken 5 river trips in Europe and Russia. We love Viking and WPR trips.  I went to Santa Fe and NY to the MET to see a local woman who is now an international star, Brenda Rae.  I went to Romania for 2 weeks for a Unitarian pilgrimage to celebrate 450 years of our faith.  i am headed to Door County on October 3rd/2021, to take a 5 day class bassed on the book by Mary Beard called SPQR.  This is about Roman times and how their political ways came to us. I still read non fiction, a lot.


I am in very good health other than glasses and hearing aids, and blessed to have family in town.  Sister Connie and her daughter's family live near me and brother Keith died from Covid pneumonia in January.  


As I write this I am looking out an 11 foot window at my 230 deep backyard that ends in a ravine bordering the urban farm.  I am in the middle of Appleton on the south side.  There are deer, turkeys, fox, raccoons, groundhogs, hawks, owls, etc. that wander through.  I have a wonderful squirrel free bird feeder with room for 8 feeders just out outside my window.  13 years ago I designed and did my own contracting to knock out the kitchen wall (remodeled kitchen) and created a green room.  My modest home meets top LEED energy standards according to the state energy audit.  My home is ready for old age with grab bars in the bathroom and on one floor.  My husband still lives across the river near Lawrence University in our lovely Queen Anne.  It is an unusual situation with a commuter marriage of 7 minutes.  We made a Wall Street Journal article about senior couples that don't live together.  I have the best of all worlds.  If you are coming through, please give a call at 920-205-2589 and stop by.

Keith Tarr

Marital status: Married
Children: 8
Occupation: retired
Comment:  I am retired after 7 years in the Air Force and 30 years in data processing. I was one of the founders of Fiserv based in Brookfield Wisconsin. 





I am married and have an extended family of 8 kids, 16 grandchildren and 1 great-granddaughter. 





We spend our winters in Tampa Florida and our summers in Milwaukee.





Life is good.






Judy Towner (Martin)

Marital status: Widowed
Children: 2
Occupation: retired teacher

Mary Sue Treado

Marital status: Single
Children: 2
Occupation: Principal Trainer
Comment: This is sooo cool, Well here I am with my two children  I have two wonderful children a son Keith who lives in KY and a doughter Karol who lives in Colorado.  I have 5 grandkids from age 21 to age 10. They are expensive right?


I am still working, like what I do, good thing cuz I can not afford to retire!


Marilyn Condella and I ended up in the same Healthcare Industry.  I find if interesting that we ended up in the same field.


My oldest grandaughter is in her 3rd year of college on a softball scholarship in KY.  My 13 year old grandaughter is also a softball player and they both are pitchers.  i do enjoy watching them play when I can.


The picture is of myself and my two children, taken at Hilton Head Island summer of 2011. It is not my age that matters it is when I have to tell people how old my kids are that is overwhelming!  It was so good to see everyone, thanks to all who made it happen.

Jean Truesdale (Laak)

Marital status: Married
Children: 2
Occupation: retired educator
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I attended UW-Madison in ILS and Elem Education after high school. Met and married John while there. After teaching grade school in Waukesha and Hartland, I earned an MS at UWM in Except. Education. When John joined the faculty at UW-Whitewater, we moved to Whitewater. I taught part time at the university while staying home with our two daughters. Then, in 1977, I was hired by the Kettle MoraineSchool District where I taught until I retired



In a weak moment, during a 1986 political battle over replacing our old city library, I ran for the city council and won. Two years and one new library later, I was still on the council, chairing a BID group, serving on the Planning/Architectural Review Board, heading a committee to save a historic building, and on a commission to improve our schools. It was a surprising education in how communities and coalitions work and provided an opportunity to make many new and lasting friends.



Our daughters graduated from UW-Madison after taking the “scenic tour” through college, studying and doing internships abroad. So, as empty nesters in the ’90’s, John and I followed their lead, attending EU conferences in higher education, teaching and learning while getting to know interesting people, visiting university campuses, and also spending time with our exchange students’ families. We traveled all over and came to especially love the Alps above the Lautenbrunnen Valley in Switzerland.



Our daughter, Liz, is an attorney and started a Montessori charter schooll. Her sister, Sara, develops and runs trade shows for a national trade association. Both live in Wisconsin with their terrific husbands and our four delightful grandchildren - 2 boys and 2 girls - with whom I have lots of fun. Will, 11, and I just returned from our engineering classes at UW’s Grandparent’s University - our third year together taking a different “major” each year. Grace can’t wait to start next year.



John’s avocation as a sports official took him to Fort Myers with UW-W baseball and softball teams each March to officiate during colleges’ spring training. After I retired and went along, we bought a condo there where we’ve spent the last seven winters - a joke at our house since I swore I’d never live in Florida like our parents did. My brother, Dewey, and wife Jan are 20 minutes away. We’re really enjoying life on the Gulf Coast and love to have Northerners visit when they escape the cold. Still, I’m just as happy to return to Wisconsin each summer and fall, to hang out with family and friends and relearn how to play golf on northern turf.

James E Van Valin

Marital status: Married
Children: 4
Occupation: Funeral Director & Embalmer
Comment:

I attended Marquette, Milwaukee Area Technical College, and Wisconsin Institute of Mortuary Science and became a Funeral Director and Embalmer. I worked in an area Funeral Home till 1970. I  married  Jean Deuel of Chippewa Falls in 1965.  In 1970 we bought a Funeral Home in Mukwonago and operated that till 1994, when we retired the first time and moved onto our boat. During the next year we took the boat down to Louisiana and Florida. We ran out of money so we started a shipping business called PakMail in Citrus County Florida, which we ran for 10 years. We have been fully retired since 2005. Since retiring we have enjoyed many great trips and try to get back to the Midwest to see our three sons, one daughter (their spouses) and our four grandchildren, other relatives and friends. Jean and I have been blessed with good health so we hope it continues.  In 2013 we moved to 37 Brightmore Dr. Greer, South Carolina.  Since moving we have enjoyed all the great things that the Greenville-Greer has to offer such the arts, adult education at Furman and the many trails in the nearby mountains.  If you are ever in the area looks us up.

Jacqueline Van Willigen (Perren)

Marital status: Married
Children: 2
Occupation: Librarian, retired
Comment: Since Waukesha, 1961...  I went to Madison, majoring in dance.  What was I thinking?  Met John and followed him to Arizona where I got a degree in English and a teaching certificate. Our two daughers were born there and we lived in the Sonoran desert for a time.  John came to UW-Parkside for  4 years and I got a Master's degree in Library Science.  John went to the University of Kentucky and I became a high school librarian and most enjoyed opening a new high school with the first computer catalog in the system.  We have lived in India and traveled widely for work. Since retirement, I have consumed a number of hobbies including gardening, geneology, yoga, teaching ESL, birding, but most of all travel.  In 2006, we went on Semester at Sea for one semester and we were hooked on the beauty and comfort of cruising and have seldom missed an opportunity to explore another port. We recently rescued a Papillon and bringing him into the world after life in a cage interests me now.